The haiku prompt words (bird and red) from Ronovan touched a tender spot in my heart this week. Eighteen years ago I lost my sister to a battle with brain cancer.
I remember at her graveside service back in Wisconsin, my nieces and nephew watched as a lone red cardinal high up in a branch kept watch over the proceedings far below. My oldest niece remarked that my sister, Kathryn loved cardinals. It was at that exact moment that we all looked at each other and cried. We knew Kathy’s spirit was right there with us and she had coaxed that cardinal to reassure us and let us know that her spirit would live on in the bright red birds she so adored.
To this day, I cannot look at a cardinal without the knowledge that my sister is close by. We have been fortunate to witness two families of cardinals born these last couple of springs in the tree line behind our house. As Kathy always said, “life goes on.”
Kathy’s Cardinal
Thanks for visiting. I will see you all again!
Gorgeous, Colleen!
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Thank you, Sue. This took a couple days to write. I wanted to pay her proper respect. ❤
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She’s lovely… we don’t have cardinals here…
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Beautiful memory about your sister Colleen 🙂
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Thank you, Irene. She was much older (16 years) than me. I did not grow up with her so it was in our adult years we got to know one another. I wish we would have had more time. ❤
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I do understand that Colleen
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beautiful
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Thank you, Annette. And thank you for all your support of me always. ❤
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You are most welcome on all counts. I truly appreciate having you in my corner! ❤
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And, I feel the same way, Annette. ❤
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Lovely. With me, it’s white butterflies. One even fluttered in front of me while I was standing in a grocery store line-up. It struck me as quite unusual and nobody seemed to notice except me.
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How beautiful, Olga. It is interesting how many of us have had similar experiences. The human brain is always looking for connections. ❤
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What a beautiful memory of your sister’s passing Collen.
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Thank you, Colline. ❤
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Oh what a beautiful and touching tribute to your sister.
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Thank you so much. She would have been embarrassed by the attention. ❤
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This is so touching! Hugs to you! Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you, Joy Roses! ❤
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Glad that the cardinals are a comforting reminder.
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Thank you, Deborah. ❤
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That’s beautiful, Colleen. I wasn’t going to enter this week (I’ve missed quite a few), but you’ve inspired me, so I’m going to write one about the Cardinal and your love for your sister ❤
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Oh, Mel! That brought tears to my eyes. Thank you. Inspiration is such a funny thing. Thanks for making me feel so much better! ❤
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It’s my pleasure. I’m feeling particularly sentimental today, and your post really touched me (they often do). It would have been my dad’s birthday tomorrow, and it’s always tough ❤
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Oh, Mel. I am so sorry. Hang in there. I am here for you. ❤
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Thanks, Colleen. We make it a happy day, so I’m looking forward to spending time with my family 😀
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That is marvelous! Cheers then and have the best day ever! 💗
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Your words show your feelings of love for your sister.
A lovely tribute from a sister 🙂
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Thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate them so much. ❤
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Such a beautiful tribute to your sister, so sorry for your loss and pain. The cardinals seem like special birds. My son experienced something similar with a butterfly the day after the funeral of my grandfather. For over half an hour the butterly sat on his hand and would not move away, by the end we all felt a certain spirituality that yes, he was telling us it would be ok.
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I think that as humans we always look for those reassurances. Thank you for your kind words. I have heard tales of just about every animal in this guise. It is quite remarkable. ❤
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[…] haven’t participated for a few weeks but, after reading my friend Colleen’s post, I felt inspired to take part. Colleen lost her sister eighteen years ago, and wrote a poem […]
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Beautiful… 🙂
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Thank you. 💗
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That is a wonderful story. I believe that, too.
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Thanks, Jacqui! 💗💗💗
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Such a beautiful and touching poem! Thank you for sharing it.
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Thank you, Sue. I’m glad you enjoyed. 💗
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Beautifully written, Colleen. Thanks for sharing the background story of your sister’s passing. I know it’s not always easy sharing memories of our losses It made your haiku all that more poignant knowing your motivation.
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Thank you, Lynn. 💗💗💗
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Reblogged this on Thoughts by Mello-Elo.
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Thanks for sharing, Eloise. 💗
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I’m so sorry for your loss Colleen. What a lovely tribute to your sister. a beautiful poem. 💗
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Thanks, Eloise. It’s the cardinals that make me think about her more now.
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They are rather stunning birds! A really nice way to know she’s with you.
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I think so too. I had a friend who said her deceased brother in law visited in the form of a road runner, a bird native to his home state of Arizona. 💗
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Oh wow! Now that is one bird I would love to see.
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I don’t think cardinals are native to the U.K. They are truly that brilliant in color and have a great sounding whistle. The females are tan with red accents. Really lovely birds to have around. ❤
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I haven’t heard of them but will check. The picture was lovely.
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Beautiful and touching remembrance 🙂 great use of the prompt and the picture. Best wishes 🙂
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Thank you for your kind words. 💗
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She is indeed, Colleen. I have a feeling she knows you wrote this for her. Wherever she is, I’m sure she knows. ❤
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Hugh, that is so sweet and kind. Thank you. My sister would have been embarrassed that I made a fuss over her. I always feel her near. It is a good feeling. ❤
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Simply stunning, Colleen. Not only the haiku but the whole post. I’m so sorry about the loss of your sister 18 years ago, but what a beautiful way to be remembered.
xx
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Thanks so much, Hugh. I had to work on this one for quite a while. She would have been proud. ❤
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This post moved me to tears. Beautiful haiku, picture, words . . . everything. What a lovely homage to your sister. ❤
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Vashti, thank you for your kind words. They mean so much to me! ❤
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